Finding Ways to Enjoy Running
Hi All! I’m Kate & you can usually find me over at Mommy Monologues. I’d like to give a big thank you to Angie for letting me write over here today! I love her blog, she’s so inspirational, & her menus pretty much rock! So I’m super excited!
I started sports at the age of 11 which eventually led me to collegiate sports (basketball & cross country) but I never really liked my weight, but I didn’t hate myself either. I just knew that I could be healthier. My dad was diagnosed with diabetes, I transferred to a new university, quit sports, & because of all these events happening around the same time it made me want to discover a healthier frame of mind. With that healthier frame of mind & fear of being diabetic, I lost 25 lbs via an overhaul in my eating habits & exercise routine (aka my lack of exercise routine.)
A few years passed, I got married, gained a little bit of weight back, was unhappy about it, found out I was pregnant, and that obviously changed everything. Since I’ve had the baby (who is now 12 months) I have been an on & off again runner. I seriously have a love/hate relationship with running! I have mostly relied on healthy eating & breastfeeding (burns 500 calories a day woot woot!) to keep me at my “dream” size. And now that breastfeeding is no longer happening I’m having to get back into a work out routine. And y’all that is hard & no fun!
Last night while I was running I got so frustrated. In my mind, I consider myself the ultimate athlete. My body, make that lungs, however would totally disagree with you. I know I’m out of shape and I know my body isn’t in its prime condition.
So, there I was pounding the pavement and after 15 minutes I just stopped. Sat down like a big toddler & wouldn’t budge. I was throwing a serious temper tantrum. And then I started talking to myself, “If you aren’t going to be positive about this then there is no point in doing it. If aren’t going to be nice to yourself while you run then you should just stop now.”
And that’s when I came up with this list of how to make my daily jogs more enjoyable: (editor’s note: I ran tonight, kept this list in mind, left my watch at home, & had a lot more fun! I had a great workout, ran for 40 minutes, definitely used pointer #2!, and am glad I went–Todd had to make me go.)
1. Have a set route in mind. Last night I went out to run with no clear map in my head of where to go. So all my mental energy went to focusing on trying to figure out what direction I wanted to run instead of focusing on the actual run itself. Running is just as much mental as it is physical! And it’s usually your mental state that will beat you every time!
2. Play games with yourself. Tell yourself that your going to run to the next light pole 50 yards (or even 10 yards) ahead. And when you get to that point you will slow down or take a break. And then start the game again. Or sometimes I have motivational sayings that match up with the beat of when my feet hit the ground. It sounds weird, but seriously I have made it through 13 miles of running saying the same phrase over & over & over in my head.
3. Don’t always focus on your watch. When I look to see how long I’ve been running & I realize that it’s been 3 minutes & it feels like 30, that’s when I flip my watch to where I can’t see it anymore. This always helps me focus on my strides instead of focusing on being miserable.
4. Don’t start out overly ambitious. Like I said, I’m getting back into running after an extended amount of time off (that’s nice for saying a year away from running.) So whenever I’m trying to get back into the swing of things I start out very, very moderately. For example, if I’m in bad, bad shape I’ll start out running 1 minute, walking 2. And I will rotate that cycle for 30 minutes. This way I can build up to running a full 30-45 minutes over a period of time. Check out Five Weeks to Your First 5k— even if you aren’t wanting to run in races, this will help you to become a runner!
5. Don’t push yourself. If you’re at a breaking point for the day, take it easy. Do whatever you need to in order to get some sort of work out in for the day. But don’t push your body or your mind because you won’t look forward to your workout the next day if you’ve pushed too hard. Sometimes you need to be easy on yourself.
Today for example, I mentally could not handle an actual run. So I walked & I felt great afterwards! Tomorrow, I’ll try to run because I didn’t push myself so hard today. I’m actually looking forward to making myself go harder (and yes, I have my route already picked out! 🙂 Exercising is supposed to be fun, it is definitely hard, but it can be a blast at the same time!
So get out there, pound the pavement, & enjoy yourself!
And Good Luck!
TheOrdinaryMe says
I surely can relate to your post… haven't blog about it actually, but believe it or not, one of my new year resolution is to loose some weight and ehhmm…*kinda embarrassing to tell* haven't start it yet.. until now..
but just this noon, had a wake up call.. one of my favorite instructor on the gym is back in business and reading you post makes me feel I'm not alone.. so probably will start it next week.. and yes.. not starting out overly ambitious is will definitely work with me… good luck!!
Shelby Bukhenik says
Oh I love running and once I am allowed to begin exercising I will DEF be using some of these tools to motivate myself!
I also love me some spinning, which I think helps with the running!
Katherine says
I so wish I could like running. I've done it off and on over the years, and just don't like it. The only thing I ever got out of it was some very sore feet.
These are great tips just for exercising in general. I have to force myself to stop looking at the clock.
Tiffany says
I'm so not a runner, though I admire those that do…Come visit us at Power of Moms, and find other moms to learn from.
Cheryl says
I SO need to do this. I should be on the treadmill right now! But here I sit..
Stacey says
Those are such great tips and I find that I do just about all of them. I ran a half marathon in April and it was so hard. But I was so proud of myself afterward. Then we went on vacation. Then I got sick. Then the kids got sick. Now I feel like I'm back to square one and you'd never know I ran a half marathon only a couple of months ago. Setting those little goals and games can make it so much better. I also like to run with music. Plus, I think of it as my quiet time and I enjoy the solitude of running after being constantly surrounded by little people. Hang in there!
Washington Woman says
Thanks for the great tips, I am trying to get back into running as well and it can be so overwhelming.
amyblam.com says
Oh lord, I wish I could find a way to enjoy running…or sweating…or wearing running shoes rather than just lazing about on the internet. Thanks for the tips!
Amy in Peru says
thanks for following me on blogfrog! 😉 I was inspired by the spanish-speaking to head on over! Your plan seems really similar to the couch potato – 5k, which I am currently using…
and here's a new link to the article you referenced, I think?
http://www.runnersworld.com/images/cma/beginner5k_table.jpg
(the link in the post isn't working for me)
thanks for this inspiration!
amy in peru
http://apilgrimsproject.blogspot.com